my tumblr url is vanillaha-ze so message me there or reply here!
i'm so confused :(

First of, it depends what program you're using the font in.

windows? is that what you mean? and i use google chrome too?

No, I mean are you just using the font in an instant messenger or graphics editor like Photoshop or MS Paint or Win Word?

i'm actually really confused :(
i am going to use it for tumblr, like a banner?
i usually just get it to say what i want, print screen it, paste it into paint, then i go onto the pictures and view it then crop it ?

You don't use well the font.

It's not possible to change the color with the Windows font vizualiser.

If you want to use a font with Paint, start by install it correctly. http://www.dafont.com/faq.php#win
After, you will be able to use it in Paint (Tool Text) with the color you want.