I see it everywhere but can't find it

I can't help... sorry. Maybe it's kinda stylized font

God luck!

Perhaps something of http://legacyofdefeat.squarespace.com/ ??... (sorry, I'm too lazy to search for everything in this complicated site)

Look here http://legacyofdefeat.squarespace.com/cholo/

I'm thinking this is custom, rather than a font …

It's not from H74/Legacy of Defeat, but it's definitely their style. Some of the most similar ones I could find from their collection are:

Riverside - http://legacyofdefeat.squarespace.com/cholo/riverside
San Loscisco - http://legacyofdefeat.squarespace.com/cholo/san-loscisco and
Pendejo - http://legacyofdefeat.squarespace.com/cholo/pendejo

also
http://www.dafont.com/monstatag.font
and some more here
http://www.dafont.com/theme.php?cat=606

Thanks everyone!! All of these were a great help, i'm a tattoo artist and a girl came in looking for something like this font, i do think its stylized but i can add all of that myself, thanks !!