does someone know what font was used here?

Bauer Bodoni  Vorgeschlagen von jerseygirl 

no bodoni is too bold. after much research i think it's didot headline or roman.

But sugarbomb, that may have been much research but not thorough research. Not all Bauer Bodonis are created equal, not even the URW ones, but if you stick to the Bitstream one as suggested and stretch that one vertically some 112% you are there.
The Didots you mention have little to nothing to do with the sample.