I adore ampersands - and you've a nice one there. All I can find you is a nice substitute - Antique Regent Italic
NOT THE FONT - but closest I can find in looks.
timjay, when you are awake again can you repost the image but then include the with text under BESPOKE. That may give it away. Many fonts have alternate ampersands and this may very well be one.
That helps ... a bit. Also this is not an exact match but you are getting closer.
Just post here, there are many more around that can help you.
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